If you have been single for quite some time now and you want to learn how to
date a
man ,
then perhaps you might want to consider learning how a guy’s mind works
first and how he reacts to certain situations. Here is a little crash
course on finding out what a guy thinks and how you should act in
particular circumstances.
First, you have to know that
men
tend to be a little secretive sometimes, because they are afraid to
show their emotions or appear emotional on certain matters. To help him
loosen up on the first
date ,
try to ask simple questions and do not bring up any sensitive topic
that he might not be comfortable talking about. Getting him to talk
about his job, for instance, might be a little stressful for him and
make him lose all interest in the conversation. Be sensitive enough to
notice if his answers becomes a little dodgy, because that is a sign
that he might not yet be at ease in telling you that aspect of his life.
Second, you must understand that in learning how to
date a
man , you should know the common interests of guys.
Men
are generally interested in cars, music, sports, and movies, so you
might want to look into those topics of conversations first. It would be
a good thing if you share the same interest, and knowing if you do can
only be done by engaging in meaningful conversations with him.
Third, your character, cheerfulness, and wit would surely capture his
attention. Try not to be very perky if you want him to focus on the
things you say. While dining, make sure that you observe proper table
manners – because this is one thing that guys can easily notice about
you. You do not have to pretend that you are strictly a “prim and
proper” woman; you just have to be ethical enough to make him respect
and admire you.
Fourth, if you want to go on a
date
with him again, then you might want to show him that you are interested
in seeing each other again. Sometimes, guys do not call a girl again
after a first
date
because they think that the girl did not enjoy their company. To avoid
this, you can say a simple “thank you” or “see you soon” before you go
part and head home. This might give him a hint that you want to see him
next time.
Lastly, show him how you appreciate that he hangs out with you. If you have gone out with him in a couple of
dates or so, make sure that he feels that you like his company and you would want to be with him again.
Take note that the key in successfully learning how to
date a
man
is knowing that particular guy better. For as long as you have the
chance to spend time with him, grab that opportunity to make him like
you and learn more about him as well
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