can be frustrating. You still love your ex and want what’s best for them, but if they’re dating again it means it will be harder to get them back, right? Not necessarily. Here’s why you shouldn’t worry too much if your ex is dating someone new.
Your ex will be constantly reminded of you. Rebound relationships happen for two reasons: either the person is just like you, or the person is the exact opposite of you. Either way, your ex was attracted to them because of you. That means your ex will be reminded of you all of the time.
Your ex will compare the new person to you. In addition to being reminded of you all of the time, your ex will also be sizing up their rebound relationship against their relationship to you. Everything the new person does will be compared to how you would have done it. Even if your ex is initially happy with the new person, eventually they will get tired of the comparison and start thinking about you again.
Because of these above reasons, rebound relationships rarely work. So if your ex is in a rebound relationship, you don’t have to worry much. It can actually be a good thing and help you get your ex back even faster. Your ex will start to miss the good things they loved about you, and because they’re comparing everyone they meet to you, they will want to get back together. If you are in the right place at the right time, it can make it a lot easier for you to get your ex back!
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