and escalation. The phases are not entirely cut and dry, but it is necessary to include elements of each phase and in the correct order. You cannot for example, go from creating comfort without first creating attraction.
Opening is just what it says. The point here is to engage the woman or group in conversation. You can do this through a simple question or interesting statement.
Attraction is the next phase in the cycle. At this phase you want to pique the woman’s interest and display that you are a high value male. You will want to subcommunicate qualities such as pre-selection, humbleness, and abundance. These qualities should flow off you effortlessly. If you are not doing something unique or something that communicates that you are indeed a “cool” guy, than you are doing something wrong. Be different. Be confident. Be present.
Comfort building is the third important phase in the cycle. Here you want to go into more of your personal attributes. You also want to qualify the woman here. By qualifying I mean making sure that she is actually someone you want to invest more time in.
Once you feel you have built enough comfort with the woman, you can then starting escalating physically. You should know when the right time is to start escalating physically. You read physical cues called “indicators of interest.” These indicators of interest are signs that the woman gives you that shows that they are interested in you romantically. They can be as subtle as a hair flip or a question like “Where are you from?”

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