Actor Uche Maduagwu took to his instagram page to write about how
some men were fortunate to marry good women but instead they turned them
to objects and toys, narrating what marriage should
truly be.
Tonto Dikeh’s husband’s photo was also among photos of men used and the actress commented under the post with ‘God bless you’.
"Why is it that some people are enemies of happiness? Why do people treat
good women like Objects and toys? I guess it’s true that some people do
not know the worth of what they have until they loose it. When a woman
gives you all her heart, time, affection and life and all she ask of you
is simple loyalty, yet you can’t guarantee her that, then it shows
something is definitely wrong somewhere. We all know that every marriage
has its own ups and downs, but that’s why a good woman is married to a
noble man, a man that should be matured enough to stir the ship of his
marriage away from the storms of life. When a man begins to hit a woman
he calls his wife, avoid her, treat her like an ordinary person or even
doesn’t create enough time for her then that man is worse than an
infedel. Even if you don’t appreciate the woman you got married to,
before walking away from that sacred institution of marriage, can’t you
for a second think about the child you are leaving behind? That child
deserves a father figure in his life, he needs a mentor, he needs
someone he can tell stuffs that his mother won’t understand. Back then,
our mother’s and fathers lived together not because everything was fine
or rosy, but because they took into consideration the children they had,
but what we have now are father’s who are so much in a hurry to walk
out of a marriage especially when its not going well. Nobody said
marriage is a paradise on earth, of course it comes with its own
problems, but what makes us great is our ability to overcome them on a
daily basis… You verbally assault your wife and yet , you expect her to
be loyal. You take all of her kindness for weakness and still expect her
to respect you. You don’t call her, text her or even return her calls
and for some reason still expect her to welcome you with an open arms. I
have seen men of honor, men who have stayed for years with their wife
and kids. Men who are so matured that they don’t joke with their woman,
in fact, they would rather abandon other activities just to be there for
their family. But I know this 2017, God is really going to punish some
fake husband’s".




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