How to Test Your Compatibility With a Boyfriend or Future Lover WITHOUT Him Needing to Know

Are you in a relationship with someone new and NOT quite sure where it might go? Do you wonder if he’s the one… or just another in a long list of dubious disappointments? Or maybe you K
NOW he really is in to YOU, but aren’t quite sure if you’re all that interested in in him, longer term as well? The truth is, there are many different reasons why a woman would want to take a love compatibility test, or to simply explore and experiment a bit with her energetic, intuitive and KARMIC connection to someone that is important in her life.
As a matter of fact…
The whole idea of karmic compatibility, or energetic connection and even the whole concept of “twin flame soul-mates” may SEEM to be a fad because we see all of the celebrities on daytime and reality TV talking about it and how well it works, but the truth is… it’s actually a TIMELESS (and eternal) technique for testing how well you measure up with your man in more ways than could be captured in one short article like this.
For example?
Did you know that there are all sorts of scientific tests being done on how certain people who are deeply in love (and in sync) seem to share a telepathic connection? Or the weird stories of young lovers separated due to war, or geography, or circumstance… only to find out 50 years later that they ended up in the same town, or on the same bus, or in the same movie theater… completely “accidentally” a world away?
Of course this is a bit MORE than mere compatibility – that’s a sign of SERIOUS soul mates and spiritual partners that are destined to be reunited simply because their connection, and karmic compatibility is STRONGER than any life circumstance can conspire to keep them apart!
Not everyone has that of course, at least not right now:-) Let’s take a quick look at some “Do’s” and “Don’ts” about testing your OWN compatibility to someone you’ve got in your life right now.
DO look deeper than the skin. Attraction is amazing. And chemicals and hormones are really important to wanting someone physically. But from a compatibility standpoint, after 20 years of doing this work, I can tell you that surface stuff… even sexual attraction is NOT the key to compatibility that lasts a lifetime.
DO have the same PASSION and sense of PURPOSE about what you here to accomplish with your lives. True compatibly is about mutual empowerment and service.
You will do far more with your life with a passionate partner who shares your goals, and your ideas, and your objectives about how life is meant to be lived.
DON’T get stuck in your head when it comes to listing qualities that make you compatible. DO use your heart to make the important choices, and always be willing to take a chance when you feel like your soulmate, or spiritual partner is there… EVEN if you feel like you may get hurt! (you might… but you’ll never know unless you surrender to the idea that there could be more to this relationship than a set of traits, or a few dates, could ever reveal!)
Lastly… DO go with your gut, trust your intuition and remember that life is a spiritual journey that is all about learning, living, LOVE and light. Pick someone who brings those qualities out in you, and makes you feel ALIVE… and trust the universe to do the rest! (if you do… in the long run, it won’t ever let you down, I promise!